Friday, February 22, 2013

Trust

Assalamualaikum,

It's Friday! A day that's full of barakah. May Allah bless us. <3
I wanna write something about trust.

TRUST!
A word that has a deep meaning to us. Why? In any kind of relationship, to make it last and happy ( at least), first, you will need to trust your partners and gain trust from them. But never trust someone 100%!!!

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When you trust your friends/partners, you will be less worry about what they will do and the decision they will make. However, when someone betrayed you, broken the trust that you gave, things will never be the same like before. Every single thing that they said and did...you will doubt it. The doubt feeling will be dominant, and will slowly ruin the relationship. In some cases, it ruins immediately. *sigh*

To the one who betrayed and broke the trust, don't get mad when people have doubts about every story that you told even though it is true. Because, it is very hard to gain trust from someone and it is very easy to destroy it. Therefore, once you get the trust, please take a very good care of it. 

Trust is like a paper. Once it's crumpled, it can't be perfect.
It takes years to build trust, but it takes a few seconds to destroy it.
Trust is like a mirror. Once its BROKEN you can never look at it the same again.

Wassalam,
XOXO

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Allah Is Our Aim

Assalamualaikum,

First post in 2013! Phewwww!!! Too busy? Perhaps....

Jangan jadikan manusia lain sebagai tempat bergantung atau mohon pertolongan, tapi bergantung haraplah dan mohonlah pertolongan daripada Allah s.w.t. Maka bantuan Allah itu akan datang dari pelbagai cara termasuklah melalui orang disekitar kita. ♥ Jadikan Allah sebagai matlamat dan manusia itu sebagai salah satu alat (bukan memperalatkan OK!) dan bukan disebaliknya. ♥
*Make Allah as our aim and the people or the other living things as a medium; not the other way around*

Last weekend usrah, one of the topic that's being discussed was about this issue. What make to post this topic is, I'm working to solve and understand an equation which is totally new to me. I found this equation about last 2 months but since it seems complicated and difficult, I put it aside at that moment. Until I have time to think about it last week. 

Staring, thinking, searching, reading and calculating...still cannot fully understand, thus use it to solve my problem. After each prayer, I tell Him about my problem. And alhamdulillah, I met someone who has a background and some knowledge about the equation. We work and discuss about it a couple of times and until this moment (while I'm writing), to make sure that our solution is correct. It becomes clear and I can understand what is the equation is all about and how to implement it for my work.

In this case, this person is a medium or a way that Allah sent to help me...to give me knowledge... And also to keep me believing that Allah is the Best and the Only Provider for me. Sufficient. 

Thank You ALLAH 

XOXO